Self psychological theory proposes that healthy self - development proceeds from adequate responsiveness of caregivers to the child s vital emotional needs , including alterego needs , idealizing needs , and mirroring needs 自体心理学理论提出,健康的自体发展来自儿童照看者对儿童的重要情感需要做出的足够响应,这些重要情感需要包括他我需要、理想化需要和镜像需要。