发号施令: issue orders; issue orders left and right; dictate one's own terms to...; give orders [commands]; order people about; lay down the law; call the tune [shots]: 干部要深入群众, 不要只是坐在办公室里发号施令。 cadr
听命于人: be at sb.'s service; be at sb.'s beck and call; dance to [after] one's pipe [whistle]: 为什么我该听命于你? why should i dance to your pipe