Jones ： if a guy ' s playing a hand , i let him play it . i ' m no kibitzer 琼斯：如果有人想单挑，我会让他干的，我可不会乱插手。
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As the ego argues , by means of challenging questions , realize that to engage in trying to find answers to those challenging questions constitutes nothing more than a distraction from being on the homing beacon ; that , in effect , the ego is being a kibitzer , and its motives ? if , indeed , it could have real motives ? do not involve your actually becoming clear 小我总想藉由质疑的方式进行争辩，但你得了解，若你老想找出这些挑战性问题的答案，只会让自己偏离了家乡灯塔的指引；事实上，小我一直都是个好事者，老出馊主意，而它的动机（如果它真能有什么动机的话） ，绝不会是要让你真的搞清楚问题。
